Mediators help people solve problems. 

Rather than a judge, jury, or an arbitrator deciding how your problem will be resolved, a skilled mediator facilitates active listening and dialogue between the disputing parties, so you decide how to settle difference and resolve your problems.

Generally, there are seven steps in a mediation:

1. The mediator sets up the time and place, and helps the parties to prepare for a constructive mediation.
2. The mediation begins with the mediator makes an opening statement, outlining the mediation process.
3. Each party makes an initial statement, explaining their issues from their own perspective.
4. An agenda is set, listing the issues raised by either or both parties.
5. The conflict is explored, communication opens up, and structured negotiations are pursued.  There may be caucuses (separate meetings between each party), brainstorming, and other methods to explore possible resolutions, and to reach the best or most acceptable agreement.
6. An agreement is written and signed by all parties.
7. The mediation comes to close.

An average mediation can take 2-3 hours in one session, although some mediations can last longer and may require more than a single session.  Family mediations generally occur in a series of sessions.  The process usually costs much less, a fraction of the cost of a litigated

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